The Worst Friend Ever
Dear Psycho-ass bitch,
I honestly considered you a close friend of mine once, because I truly thought you were an amazing girl with an awesome personality. So despite your crazy ex-boyfriend-dating-the-friend drama which, in case you didn’t know, turned all our friends against you, I chose to stick by you and be there for you. Unknowing to me, I got shit for it too, because people started avoiding me as well thinking that I was going to go psycho like you. However, as YOUR friend, I stuck by you, even when others warned me not to.
Woe is me, for I found out that while I was being your close friend, you decided that it’d be ok to tell other people about MY personal shit, shit that could destroy my relationship with my boyfriend. And when I confronted you, twice, TWICE you got defensive, then lied to my face and denied telling others. But I forgave and continued treating you as a friend, just one that I won’t tell personal stuff to next time. However, you start getting pissed off and complaining to others why I’m being such a bitch and moving on to find new friends, which as much as it irked me, didn’t yet earn you an angry letter on this blog.
Starting 3 weeks ago, you suddenly started ignoring me which I found strange, but not surprising. However, when you told me the reason today, that’s when you landed yourself this angry letter. Congratulations bitch! You randomly accuse me of showing people some letter you wrote to your friend-dating-the-ex, and blame me for others accusing you of being manipulative. Well wake up! When you sent that letter, you should’ve known that word would’ve spread, not to mention your big fat mouth didn’t already tell half of our friends about this shit. Then you go on jumping to conclusions saying that I did this out of spite for what you did to me before.
Wow, I don’t think I’ve ever been more offended in my life. First I get used by you, as someone to keep you company when everyone else ditched you, and then when you get back on good terms with them, you just toss me aside. Then there’s the backstabbing, the denial, the accusations, all mixed in with your bitchy-ass psycho self. The worst part was having to pretend to agree when you kept saying how hot you were when in fact, you are not hot, at all. I’m sorry, but the guys were right: you have tree-trunk thighs, and you’re about as manly as a girl can be. Oh and those glamor pictures you took? You look like you’re five. Whew, it feels good to finally be able to speak the truth 
no love,
Mimi
Cindy says:
Wow @_@ that’s intense. Gotta hate people like that eh?
Mimi says:
Yeah, except I’d never thought it’d be her…
Kiyu says:
Hahahaha. I’m sorry, it probably isn’t a laughing matter to you, but I find this post really amusing. Good feeling, letting off some steam, isn’t it? : D
Mimi says:
Don’t worry about it, I was trying to make this post funny while still getting my point across, so I’m glad someone laughed
But yes, it felt good letting it out.
Aldi says:
wowwww, i read from the first word to the last… You’re very angry, and you have a great reason :S
Don’t be upset then, she is such a bitch ¬¬
Mimi says:
I was extremely angry when I wrote the message, because there’s nothing I hate more than betrayal and being used. It’s a sick feeling
Liza says:
It’s difficult to find true friendship and hurts even more when you realize that person has ulterior motives. It pretty much destroys the illusion of a best friend. I just hope in the end you come out of this well and knowing it wasn’t something lost but something gained. Because of her you’ve opened your eyes a little more and are more aware of what people are capable of.
Mimi says:
It does, no one deserves to be used and tossed aside like this. But you’re right, losing her wasn’t a loss for me, but a gain, because now I appreciate my true friends a lot more.
Risa says:
Eventually she’ll get everything she deserves. I envy you for trying to be friends with her once she did get ditched.But at least now you know-so when she turns psycho again and ends up abandoned you won’t have to take the slack for it.
Mimi says:
She can go find new butt-buddies to leech off of, because frankly, she’s not the only friend in my life, and I always have other people to fall back on. I feel sorry for her that she doesn’t.
Lily says:
What a bitch!! I can’t believe how much forgiveness and patience your have :O I would never have been able to tolerate someone like that. People like will get what they deserve. If she continues like that someone [like you] will realise what kind of person she really is.
Mimi says:
Lol, I wouldn’t say I have a lot of forgiveness or patience, but I just try to give everyone a second chance when they sincerely apologize, because I know everyone makes mistakes. But what she did was just too much, so yeah, enough is enough.
Trish says:
You go, girl. I’ve recently let off some steam with a “friend”, too. It feels great, doesn’t it?
I hate when you act as nice as you can be to someone and then they treat you like shit. But, hey, that’s what karma’s for. Does she read your blog? 
She’ll soon realize you were the best thing that happened to her, and she’ll regret throwing you away like this.
Mimi says:
It sure does! I just wish I had the gut to do it in person, but considering we share the same group of friends, I don’t want tension or awkwardness between us. Oh well. No she doesn’t read my blog, which is good, or else this is probably gonna give her big mouth something else to rant and rave about.
SassyGirl says:
Doesn’t it suck when you try to believe in a friend when everyone else doesn’t, and then you get burned? I am very familiar with that feeling.
By the way, I just read your About page, and you and are SO alike! Blogging is my secret crush, and I have been blogging since Grade 6! I’m also a Chinese-Canadian (not from Taiwan though
), equal parts Canadian and fob 
And your avatar for the previous post? I love Hana Yori Dango <3
Mimi says:
It seriously does. I guess I was too trusting and naive, so I’ll just take this incident as a lesson learned to be more careful next time.
I also daydream about the life of my alter ego too, hahaha.
I read your about page too, and wow, we are a lot alike
susy says:
hello~ i just randomly came across your site
and i love the layout!! *browses more*
and thankgoodness you’ve let out your anger about ur so called ‘friend’. she sounds absolutely pathetic and two-faced. good job you ditched her! ive had a friend similar to her.. ugh it was horrible..but we dont talk much now.. so ye glad that’s over with.. how long had you and this so called ‘friend’ been mates??
Mimi says:
Thank you, I’m glad you like it
I guess there’s a “friend” like this in everybody’s life, and it’s good that we can finally see them for who they are before they screw us over any further. The sad thing is we’ve been friends for almost 2 years now.
Mai says:
Gah, I’ve had a “friend” like this in the past. Hope you get through the drama.
Just wondering, did you want her to see this? Or was it just a rant
?
Mimi says:
It was mainly to rant and let out steam, which is why I didn’t want to add names or anything that might point specifically to her. But if God forbid she does see it, well, it’s about time someone told her the harsh truth
Alicia says:
I sooo know where you are coming from. I had this one “BEST FRIEND” in my undergrad days that i knew from like middle school but we became (or so i thought) close in uni. When she was having roomie problems i slid over in the full size bed and let her stay in my room. I helped her move when she finally got away from the crazy roomie. I helped feed her when she’d spend her paycheck buying designer brands she couldn’t afford. She’d wake me up at 6am using my printer to print her 20+ page chem labs. She’d borrow my clothes without asking. Then all of a sudden she does a 180 and befriends a girl she claimed to hate. 2 years of what i thought was friendship down the drain. Users are scum.
To forgive may be divine, but it’s hard to forgive backstabbing uber-bitches.
On the plus side, you’re more fabulous without her :o)